S3E4 - Nick Name Game

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Good evening people, it's your girl, Lady Stinghart, and and we are

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back with a random rant. So, okay, so we're having dinner and

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we're watching Lover's Blind Brazil season two, and I can't remember her name.

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Black girl with the braids who's paired
with white guy. What's his name again,

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Alison, white guy? I remember
his name anyway, he says he's

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going to save her number in his
phone as love, and she was annoyed

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by that, and rightfully so.
So today's random rant is about what you

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get saved in your significant other's phone, as in your boyfriend's phone, as

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in your side chicks phone as et
cetera, et cetera, And does that

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lend meaning to how they see you? And can city? So I will

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start. So for years I had
don't finish my Brussels sprouts, so I

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said, we haven't dinner. Why
are you looking like that? So for

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years I had someone saved in my
phone as jump Off. That's what it

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was, jump Off. They eventually
got a name added, but it took

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I think at least two two years
to have the name added. I asked

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you, just now, what am
I saved in your phone as? And

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you said this chick, and of
course I gave him the look. He

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goes to try to change it to
this chick. I clearly was not saved

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in his phone as this chick.
Else we might have had an issue,

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but I'm not saved in his phone
as anything fancy or special. I just

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want you all to know she saved
us her name. Mm hmm. There's

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nothing fancy or special. There's no
loving about it. Now, how can

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I make it loving love of my
life? Like oh girl said on love

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is blind? Love of my life? No, I want I want a

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name in there and an indicator,
because if you just put love of my

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life, that could be anybody like
I know, I know somebody who has

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I know a driver. I'm gonna
reference the driver again who had chicks saved

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in his phone as fifty third and
fourth or whatever, or Avenue L or

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whatever and dominoes. That's how he
got away with his nonsense. So to

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her defense, she doesn't want to
be saved in his phone as love because

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that can be anyone. What you
say love can be anyone? And is

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that like disrespectful being that she's the
fiance. Well, if that's the extent

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of his creativity. I wouldn't necessarily
say creativity, but like, what if

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that's the only designation he's willing to
give, Like, okay, everybody else

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is their name, and the person
that I love is under love, then

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I can't see it being disrespectful.
It's you know, it's what you choose.

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Like, I can't decide for you
what names to put it in there,

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unless you're gonna put it in my
phone however you want to put it

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and then that's how it comes up. Give me a phone. I'm gonna

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put it in there how I want
it. You put it in how you

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want it. It's gonna put me
down to the bottom. I don't know.

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It depends on the list right now. It depends on what letter.

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I'm gonna keep it with my first
name hyphen. Let's go your first name

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hyphen mm mm hmmm okahead D A
D A space space B. I really

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just go ahead and type b I
G G G G E R R space

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okay, b O mm hm.
That's the bigger that's what you want to

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be knowing as the bigger boss.
You know what, that's what you are

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because you're in my phone as the
boss. Oh when you're the bigger boss.

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Okay, you know that's what it
is, all right, So that's

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what it is. I could be
in your phone is whatever I want to

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be, whatever you want to be, doesn't change, mind. I don't

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care, all right to the bigger
boss called me? Should I be scared

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that you didn't have any individual nickname
picked out for me? Scared of what?

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Scared that you haven't putting any effort
and thought into a loving nickname?

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Have you met me? Like?
How loving and nickname is? Am?

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I? You give nicknames to everybody? So oh, so you have a

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nickname, but you want to put
it in the phone. Oh I forget

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about that. So you want to
put it in I haven't heard that in

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so long, So let's change it
to dath since you want to change nicknames

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because Lay's fab rya is ry bear? What's Ralph Ralph? Ral Well?

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I mean it's his name is Robert, but you know it's Robert Ralph,

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but I call him Ralph, so
that's what he is. Okay, So

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that's my random rant. I wasn't
in the phone as anything special, just

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my name special. So I mean, I don't see what that changes.

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I don't know. This is a
thing it's a thing for me. Obviously

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it's a thing for them, but
I and and again, if she wanted

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to be in his phone or something
else, then she was like, hey,

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let me put my name in your
phone and you type it out how

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you wanted to type it out.
That'll be what it is. Not everybody

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is as accepting as you are.
Well, uh huh, I mean,

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I guess, but that's what I'm
saying, jump off, I did not

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know he was in my phone?
Is jump off for two years? Well,

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I mean that's I'm quite sure he
knew who he was but where he

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stood. So but that's the thing. He probably didn't think he was just

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a jump off. I'm pretty sure
he didn't care. You think. I'm

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pretty sure he cared, cause I
know at one point he was like,

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yo, you don't know my name, and I was like, nah.

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See that's the problem with putting a
nickname. Like you calling somebody your nickname,

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and then all of a sudden you
forget their real name. It becomes

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an issue. So you might want
to put in their real name or at

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least their initials. So that's why
you got my real name, so I

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don't forget it. You think you
really forget my name. Yep, I

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doubt it. You know, old
timers could come in you. I can

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forget it, but I don't like
it. Just doesn't make any sense that,

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Like, I'm not gonna sit there
once I put your name in it

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on my phone. I'm not gonna
sit here and go back like, oh

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my god, I did. She's
so amazing. It's gonna change your name

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to you No, amazing, that's
how I like amazing. You could go

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with that. Yeah, right,
I'm gonna go with because then what if

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somebody else became amazing and I changed
their name to amazing. Now I got

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too amazing. That should never happen. So that's why you don't nickname anybody.

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You give them their name, and
then you give them a description.

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Okay, what's the description of you
right now? Ye? Pain in my

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neck? I'm sure you don't.
You do what you do, but you

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don't. I don't sit there,
and I'm if it goes in as I

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put it in, and that will
be the last time I ever do anything

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with it. It's not gonna like
I'm going to go in there and just

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be like, oh my god,
she's so amazing. I'm just gonna change

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your name to something so loving and
I'm not that type of person. Okay,

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what about pictures? What about pictures? Do you change profile pictures?

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And like contact pictures. I have
some people who have contact pictures, other

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people don't. But there's only people
that who's worthy of a contact picture.

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The people that have contact picture is
not necessarily worth. It's just pictures are

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like when I when I first saw
that you can put contact pictures, I

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put a couple of people in there. But like I know, maybe two

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people have contact pictures in my phone, and that's because like one is of

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them and their baby and it's actually
for two people, and one is just

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a picture of a person in uniform. And that's because we was playing around

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like oh look I can do this, and I did that and it took

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a picture. I said, every
time you call me, this was gonna

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show up. But they don't call
me, so it never shows up.

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So I don't have a contact picture
on your PA. No again, when

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I put it in, I put
it in. You want a contact picture

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too, We'll give you a contact
picture. And I want a good contact

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picture too. I'm gonna give you
a Google I'm wanna give you a great

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one. Guys, I'm go to
make him post the contact picture that he

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selects, and if it's anything crazy, y'all better come for him. No,

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no, st move, I need
to get this. I'm gonna put

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a contact picture of chicken bone on
a half empty plate. That doesn't even

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like sum me up you up?
No, it doesn't always eating little nibbleing

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it. That's that's what you eat, little nibbles. M that would have

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been a cute nickname, little nibbles, nibbles nibbles. People will be like,

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oh, why are you calling him
nipples? All right, that's my

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random ramp. Pay attention to how
you are put into other people's phones,

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and it says a lot, guys, it says nothing. It says how

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much they respect you or disrespect you, how much they value you or devalue

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you. That's was a lot I
could have. I could have put you

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in as anything else when I first
met you, but I chose to put

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your name. Respected you enough to
know your name or try to remember your

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name. Let's get on that.
Because you know you ain't know my name

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till the other day. What are
you talking about? Say my name.

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I'm not saying your name because I
told you I'm not. It's a whole

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podcast on your name, Miss Jamaicia. Shoot, I canceled that. Good

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some nonsense, all right, that
was my random rant. It's over all

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right, r okay, good night. You told me Wow, disrespectful.

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Just like no nickname. I get
a grip. Goodbye,