S3E4 - Nick Name Game

0:01 Good evening people, it's your girl, Lady Stinghart, and and we are back with a random rant. So, okay, so we're having dinner and we're watching Lover's Blind Brazil season two, and I can't remember her name. Black girl with the braids who's paired with white guy. What's his name again, Alison, white guy? I remember his name anyway, he says he's going to save her number in his phone as love, and she was annoyed by that, and rightfully so. So today's random rant is about what you get saved in your significant other's phone, as in your boyfriend's phone, as in your side chicks phone as et cetera, et cetera, And does that lend meaning to how they see you? And can city? So I will start. So for years I had don't finish my Brussels sprouts, so I said, we haven't dinner. Why are you looking like that? So for years I had someone saved in my phone as jump Off. That's what it was, jump Off. They eventually got a name added, but it took I think at least two two years to have the name added. I asked

1:32 you, just now, what am I saved in your phone as? And you said this chick, and of course I gave him the look. He goes to try to change it to this chick. I clearly was not saved in his phone as this chick. Else we might have had an issue, but I'm not saved in his phone as anything fancy or special. I just want you all to know she saved us her name. Mm hmm. There's nothing fancy or special. There's no loving about it. Now, how can I make it loving love of my life? Like oh girl said on love is blind? Love of my life? No, I want I want a name in there and an indicator, because if you just put love of my life, that could be anybody like I know, I know somebody who has I know a driver. I'm gonna reference the driver again who had chicks saved in his phone as fifty third and fourth or whatever, or Avenue L or whatever and dominoes. That's how he got away with his nonsense. So to her defense, she doesn't want to be saved in his phone as love because that can be anyone. What you say love can be anyone? And is that like disrespectful being that she's the fiance. Well, if that's the extent

3:06 of his creativity. I wouldn't necessarily say creativity, but like, what if that's the only designation he's willing to give, Like, okay, everybody else is their name, and the person that I love is under love, then I can't see it being disrespectful. It's you know, it's what you choose. Like, I can't decide for you what names to put it in there, unless you're gonna put it in my phone however you want to put it and then that's how it comes up. Give me a phone. I'm gonna put it in there how I want it. You put it in how you want it. It's gonna put me down to the bottom. I don't know.

3:54 It depends on the list right now. It depends on what letter. I'm gonna keep it with my first name hyphen. Let's go your first name hyphen mm mm hmmm okahead D A D A space space B. I really just go ahead and type b I G G G G E R R space okay, b O mm hm. That's the bigger that's what you want to be knowing as the bigger boss. You know what, that's what you are because you're in my phone as the boss. Oh when you're the bigger boss.

4:47 Okay, you know that's what it is, all right, So that's what it is. I could be in your phone is whatever I want to be, whatever you want to be, doesn't change, mind. I don't care, all right to the bigger boss called me? Should I be scared that you didn't have any individual nickname picked out for me? Scared of what? Scared that you haven't putting any effort and thought into a loving nickname? Have you met me? Like? How loving and nickname is? Am? I? You give nicknames to everybody? So oh, so you have a nickname, but you want to put it in the phone. Oh I forget about that. So you want to put it in I haven't heard that in so long, So let's change it to dath since you want to change nicknames because Lay's fab rya is ry bear? What's Ralph Ralph? Ral Well?

5:49 I mean it's his name is Robert, but you know it's Robert Ralph, but I call him Ralph, so that's what he is. Okay, So that's my random rant. I wasn't in the phone as anything special, just my name special. So I mean, I don't see what that changes. I don't know. This is a thing it's a thing for me. Obviously it's a thing for them, but I and and again, if she wanted to be in his phone or something else, then she was like, hey, let me put my name in your phone and you type it out how you wanted to type it out. That'll be what it is. Not everybody is as accepting as you are. Well, uh huh, I mean, I guess, but that's what I'm saying, jump off, I did not know he was in my phone? Is jump off for two years? Well, I mean that's I'm quite sure he knew who he was but where he stood. So but that's the thing. He probably didn't think he was just a jump off. I'm pretty sure he didn't care. You think. I'm pretty sure he cared, cause I know at one point he was like, yo, you don't know my name, and I was like, nah.

7:02 See that's the problem with putting a nickname. Like you calling somebody your nickname, and then all of a sudden you forget their real name. It becomes an issue. So you might want to put in their real name or at least their initials. So that's why you got my real name, so I don't forget it. You think you really forget my name. Yep, I doubt it. You know, old timers could come in you. I can forget it, but I don't like it. Just doesn't make any sense that, Like, I'm not gonna sit there once I put your name in it on my phone. I'm not gonna sit here and go back like, oh my god, I did. She's so amazing. It's gonna change your name to you No, amazing, that's how I like amazing. You could go with that. Yeah, right, I'm gonna go with because then what if somebody else became amazing and I changed their name to amazing. Now I got too amazing. That should never happen. So that's why you don't nickname anybody.

8:01 You give them their name, and then you give them a description. Okay, what's the description of you right now? Ye? Pain in my neck? I'm sure you don't. You do what you do, but you don't. I don't sit there, and I'm if it goes in as I put it in, and that will be the last time I ever do anything with it. It's not gonna like I'm going to go in there and just be like, oh my god, she's so amazing. I'm just gonna change your name to something so loving and I'm not that type of person. Okay, what about pictures? What about pictures? Do you change profile pictures? And like contact pictures. I have some people who have contact pictures, other people don't. But there's only people that who's worthy of a contact picture.

8:54 The people that have contact picture is not necessarily worth. It's just pictures are like when I when I first saw that you can put contact pictures, I put a couple of people in there. But like I know, maybe two people have contact pictures in my phone, and that's because like one is of them and their baby and it's actually for two people, and one is just a picture of a person in uniform. And that's because we was playing around like oh look I can do this, and I did that and it took a picture. I said, every time you call me, this was gonna show up. But they don't call me, so it never shows up.

9:41 So I don't have a contact picture on your PA. No again, when I put it in, I put it in. You want a contact picture too, We'll give you a contact picture. And I want a good contact picture too. I'm gonna give you a Google I'm wanna give you a great one. Guys, I'm go to make him post the contact picture that he selects, and if it's anything crazy, y'all better come for him. No, no, st move, I need to get this. I'm gonna put a contact picture of chicken bone on a half empty plate. That doesn't even like sum me up you up? No, it doesn't always eating little nibbleing it. That's that's what you eat, little nibbles. M that would have been a cute nickname, little nibbles, nibbles nibbles. People will be like, oh, why are you calling him nipples? All right, that's my random ramp. Pay attention to how you are put into other people's phones, and it says a lot, guys, it says nothing. It says how much they respect you or disrespect you, how much they value you or devalue you. That's was a lot I could have. I could have put you in as anything else when I first met you, but I chose to put your name. Respected you enough to know your name or try to remember your name. Let's get on that. Because you know you ain't know my name

11:15 till the other day. What are you talking about? Say my name. I'm not saying your name because I told you I'm not. It's a whole podcast on your name, Miss Jamaicia. Shoot, I canceled that. Good some nonsense, all right, that was my random rant. It's over all right, r okay, good night. You told me Wow, disrespectful. Just like no nickname. I get a grip. Goodbye,